A daughter has given thanks to the hospice team who took care of her mother in her final months, enabling her to have the peaceful death she wanted.
From helping her with her lipstick to celebrating unexpected birthdays, Deidre Remnant looked after with the kind compassion and respect anyone would want for their loved one, said Sarah Remnant.
“Mum was a very active, kind and caring person who loved animals, especially horses, and enjoyed spending time outdoors in nature. She valued her independence and took great pride in her appearance too,” explained Sarah, who lives near Ipswich.
After being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in April 2024, Deidre came under the care of St Elizabeth Hospice that summer. She moved to Ipswich from King’s Lynn to be closer to Sarah.
Sarah continued: “Some of my most treasured memories from that time are of family trips to the beach, summer meals in the garden, surrounded by flowers, wayward pets and the messiness of family life.
“We enjoyed unexpected birthdays, a final carol concert and a family Christmas with Mum helping to prepare lunch, as she had done single-handedly for most of her life.
“These moments were only possible because of the expertise and commitment of the hospice and the reassurance they gave us, that Mum could be supported at home safely.”
She added: “What stood out most was the gentle, unhurried approach to care. Whatever stage Mum was at in her illness, the hospice was there for her, and for us.”
Deirdre died in February 2025, aged 83.
Annually, St Elizabeth Hospice cares for more than 4,000 patients and their families throughout East & Mid-Suffolk, Great Yarmouth and Waveney.
This care sees the independent Suffolk charity providing free services - whenever and wherever it is needed, whether at home, in the community or at the hospice - to those living with a progressive or life-limiting illness.
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